Be a victor. Not a victim! Things don’t happen to you specifically. Things just happen by nature, the law of large numbers, trial and error.
Stop blaming it on a lack cash, color, favoritism, politics,up bringing, parents, physical disabilities, anxiety, natural disaster, etc.
If you want something you will find a way to get it no matter what is going on in the background.
Stop blaming and start aiming, for your goals, dreams, wants, and desires. Take action.