You can’t look at everyone like butlers. If you want something you have to get up off of your ass and go get it. Nobody truly cares about what you want. Everyone is just focused on getting their own ducks in order. So again, stop waiting for handouts, and go make moves. Make fast moves. Make smart moves. Make as many moves as you can over the course of your life.
Regardless of how close you are to someone in your life, it’s your life. You have to do for you assuming that nobody around you will ever help.