Any goal worth pursuing will be met with temporary failure, and pain. If you can endure it, and keep fighting, goal is yours. A lot of us act as if adversity doesn’t exist when we think about what we want. The moment you decide you want a better life, a shit ton of adversity will come yournway at some point. The adversity is notnthere to discourage us from doing something.
It’s there to build our character, and make us stronger. Get used to dealing with it.