We’re conditioned by our upbringing at an early age. Whatever life was like growing up, will tend to follow suit into adulthood. This can be a serious problem if you ended up adopting destructive habits. As young children there is not much we can do to chang our circumstances. As teeneagers or young adults there is plenty we can do. We can change our perspection of the world. We can work harder and think more positivie thoughts. We can use our imagination and visialization to manifest the life we want to lead after we leave our parents for good. The first step is noticing the behavior of those around you, and identifying if they are soul-crushing and beneficial.