We’re all in it for self. At the end of it all, you are the CEO of your own life. Yes you love your friends, and yes you love your family, but lets keep it real, you have to make sure you are good before helping anybody else. There’s nothing wring with that, it’s just the way life works. How can someone that is already broken, fix the next broken soul? The results just multiply.
The next time someone calls you selfish, just say “Duh!”